I am 36, married, but I have not had sex with my wife for over 5 years. She likes not having "dirty sex" with me. I don't want to have sex with her because I am now gay and have a boyfriend. Our marriage is as normal as a marriage can be without sex. I meet Randy at least 3 times a week for love and sex. If I was not already married, I would ask Randy to marry me. I am the bottom in our relationship. I suck Randy's cock and he licks my ass and balls before he fucks me. Randy has about 9 inches. I had guilt feelings for not being able to deep throat the entire 9 inches and my ass couldn't take it all. After almost 5 years, I can take all 9 inches in my ass with no trouble and I can deep throat it although t I still gag while I am sucking his cock. Woody Hungarter